reality checks

Although, I felt authoritative confidence should be a crucial component of my leadership, I surrounded myself with a close team whose members were sufficiently self-assured and curious to provide me-and each other-with much-needed reality checks.

尽管我当时觉得，作为领导的自信应该是构成我领导力的关键组成部分，但我让一个团队紧密包围在自己身边，团队的成员有充分的自信和好奇心，可以让我——以及我们彼此——提供亟需的现实检验。

To get into the habit, set an alarm or make it a goal to do reality checks a certain number of times per day.

养成一个习惯，订一个闹钟，或者制定一个计划，即每天作多少次现实检查。

Reality checks are best delivered via email rather than in person, because email gives everyone the opportunity to cool down.

回访最好通过邮件而不是面对面进行，因为邮件给了每个人冷静的机会。

This system passes the attack defense imitates the reality checks the enunciation, the method that defend of the SYN& Flooding attack have the obvious result, design imitate true system based on network, and we proceed the emulation data the verification.

本系统通过攻击防御仿真实验表明，本文提出的对防御SYN一-Flooding攻击的方法具有明显效果。以局域网为架构设计仿真系统，进行了模拟数据验证。

What we have consistently failed to do, however, is to undertake reality checks to see whether the story we spin ourselves still has some basis in fact.

我们一贯失败的的是，是否能在讲述自己的故事时仍可保持以事实为依据。